Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom. — Proverbs 13:10 KJV
Where there is strife, there is pride, but wisdom is found in those who take advice. — Proverbs 13:10 NIV
Reflection on Verse for Today
The poetic imagery of the Proverbs often serves as a mirror, reflecting the inner workings of our hearts and souls. In Proverbs 13:10, we encounter a stark contrast: the stubbornness of pride against the humbleness of wisdom.
Pride, in its essence, isolates. When we are full of ourselves, there’s no room for others. This self-centeredness becomes the breeding ground for disputes and misunderstandings. Pride tells us that our perspective is supreme, our opinions unmatched, and our solutions unparalleled. The result? We push others away, dismissing their experiences, their insights, and their wisdom. We believe we stand tall, but in reality, pride is the shaky ground on which we teeter towards conflict.
Conversely, wisdom is found in those willing to listen, to learn, and to lean on others. True wisdom understands that every individual is a repository of unique experiences and insights, which, when pooled together, paints a more holistic picture of life. Taking advice is not a sign of weakness, but strength. It showcases a heart willing to admit its limitations and a soul eager to grow in understanding.
As Christians, this bible verse also reminds us this day of the humility of Christ. Even as the Son of God, He sought the will of the Father, engaged in deep moments of prayer, and was open to the insights and needs of those around Him. If such was the humility of Christ, how much more should we, as His followers, heed this wisdom?
In our journey of faith, we are invited to shed the shackles of pride and embrace a posture of humble seeking. Whether it’s in our personal relationships, our church communities, or our broader engagements with the world, may we always be open to advice, drawing from the well of collective wisdom, and moving closer to the heart of Christ.
Today, let us reflect: In what areas of our life are we holding onto pride? Where can we seek wisdom? And how can we better embody the humility of Christ in our daily interactions?