for Sunday, May 18th, 2025 [Previous Reflections]
“Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things.“
— Romans 2:1 KJV
We all love playing referee in someone else’s life. Pointing out fouls. Blowing the whistle. Wagging a finger. It makes us feel a little better about our own mess when we call out someone else’s. But Paul wrecks that illusion. He reminds us: judging others doesn’t make us right—it just makes us blind to our own need for grace.
Truth is, we’re all in the same boat. Same struggle. Same sin-stained humanity. And grace? It wasn’t handed out to the best performers. It was poured out on all of us—equally messy, equally loved.
So if grace saved you, what are you doing wielding judgment like a sword? Lay it down. Look in the mirror. Then look around. Everyone you’re tempted to judge? They’re just as desperate for mercy as you once were. And still are.
Grace doesn’t just forgive you. It humbles you. And it teaches you to see people not as projects to fix—but as souls to love.
Lord, I confess—it’s easier to see the faults in others than to face my own. I’ve judged when I should’ve listened. I’ve criticized when I should’ve shown compassion. Forgive me for the moments I forgot that grace covers me too.
Humble my heart, God. Help me remember that I stand in constant need of the same mercy I often withhold from others. When I’m tempted to condemn, remind me of the cross. Remind me that it was never my job to play judge—only to love like You loved me.
Teach me to see people through eyes washed in grace. Break the habit of comparison, and replace it with empathy. Let my words lift, not tear down. Let my life reflect the patience You show me daily.
Thank You for not giving up on me. Help me not give up on others. In Jesus’ name, Amen.