In a recent international gathering in Poland, over 140 Christian therapists united to discuss a pressing issue: how to provide hope and support for individuals grappling with unwanted same-sex attraction or gender confusion. This meeting, organized by the International Foundation for Therapeutic and Counselling Choice (IFTCC), aimed to address the need for compassionate, choice-oriented counseling amidst growing restrictions on so-called "conversion therapy" in various countries.
Dr. Mike Davidson, chairman of IFTCC, opened the conference by emphasizing the importance of engaging with the church’s current discourse surrounding celibacy and transformation. He argued that merely suggesting lifelong celibacy as the only option for individuals facing these challenges is not only unhelpful but potentially harmful, especially to younger individuals. "If we tell a 13-year-old boy that he has no escape, I don’t think that is doing the just thing," Davidson remarked. Instead, he advocated for a message of choice, allowing individuals to explore their feelings and desires without the pressure of a predetermined path.
The therapists present at the conference rejected the term "conversion therapy," preferring "change-allowing therapy" to describe their approach. This terminology reflects their commitment to respecting individual autonomy and the right to seek help in aligning their lives with their personal values and beliefs. The IFTCC argues that limiting therapy options to only affirmative practices restricts individuals from pursuing their own goals for change.
Dr. Rosaria Butterfield, a writer and former lesbian who contributed to a panel discussion, stressed the importance of Christians engaging at the political level. She pointed out that many Christians have failed to defend the Gospel in the context of natural law, particularly regarding the creation of male and female. Butterfield encouraged believers to be proactive in public discourse, asserting that the church must reclaim its voice in societal discussions about sexuality and identity.
The conference also highlighted the alarming trend in the U.S., where more than 20 states have enacted bans on counseling for minors experiencing unwanted same-sex attraction and gender confusion. Drs. Mercy Connors and Shannae Anderson from the American Association of Christian Counselors shared their efforts to introduce a conscience clause that would allow Christian therapists to practice in accordance with their beliefs. They expressed concerns that the situation could worsen before it improves, emphasizing the urgent need for advocacy and action.
Dr. Felix Boellmann, a lawyer with Alliance Defending Freedom International, urged Christians to take an active stance in reclaiming parental rights. He encouraged believers to get involved in local school boards and parent-teacher associations, highlighting that meaningful change requires presence and participation in community discussions.
As the conference concluded, it became clear that the path forward involves a collaborative effort within the church and society. By fostering an environment of compassion, understanding, and respect for individual choices, Christians can offer a message of hope to those struggling with unwanted attractions and behaviors.
In a world where cultural conversations about sexuality and identity are often polarized, the IFTCC conference served as a reminder that the church has a vital role in offering support and guidance rooted in love and truth. As believers, the call to action is clear: engage with compassion, advocate for freedom of choice, and stand firm in the truth of the Gospel.
For more insights on this important topic, you can read about the ongoing discussions surrounding therapy choices at Focus on the Family and explore the legal implications of these changes at Alliance Defending Freedom.