“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.”
— Proverbs 18:22 KJV
Reflection on Today's Verse
You ever stumble across something so good, you’re convinced you’ve unlocked a divine cheat code? Like, you’re in the clearance aisle, and that 70% off tag is glowing with heavenly light? That’s what this verse is saying, but bigger. Way bigger. Finding a wife isn’t just a “good thing”—it’s God’s way of saying, “Here’s a treasure, my guy. Treat it like one.”
Now, let’s talk about the word “find.” It’s not a passive thing, like finding loose change in the couch cushions. It’s intentional. You search. You pray. You seek. And, oh, you mess up a few times along the way (hello, awkward first dates). But when God brings the right one into your life? Boom. It’s favor. Not the vending machine kind where you get what you want instantly, but the deep, soul-level blessing that reshapes your world.
Here’s the kicker: It’s not just about “having” a wife—it’s about being the kind of person who can recognize and honor such a gift. Are you husband material? Or are you still out here trying to “win” relationships like it’s a game of Mario Kart? Because, spoiler alert: God’s favor isn’t a prize for your charm; it’s His grace for your growth.
So, yes, finding a wife is a good thing. But she’s not just a “thing.” She’s a partner, a confidant, a lifelong lesson in patience and love—and someone who will remind you when you’ve left your socks on the floor for the 100th time. And honestly? That’s a level of divine favor we should all aspire to earn daily.
Takeaway: Pursue God first, and the good things—including that verse kind of favor—will follow. And when it does, don’t forget to say thank you. Preferably with flowers.
Personal Prayer
Heavenly Father, teach me to be patient in the search and to trust Your perfect timing. Help me grow into the person You’ve called me to be, so I can honor and cherish the blessing of a wife with humility and joy.
For those who are already married, Father, strengthen their relationships and remind them daily of the favor You’ve poured into their lives through their union. Let love flourish, let forgiveness flow freely, and let their bond be a testimony of Your divine grace.
Above all, Lord, may my heart always seek You first, knowing that every good and perfect gift comes from Your hand. Thank You for Your favor, both now and in the blessings to come.
In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.