Embracing Our Questions: Trusting God Through Life’s Whys
From the moment our children begin to speak, we are often met with an avalanche of questions. “Why is the sky blue?” “Why do we have to eat vegetables?” “Why do I have to go to bed?” These innocent inquiries can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially when you’ve just finished a long day. But what if we looked at these questions through a different lens? What if, instead of feeling burdened, we embraced the curiosity that comes with being human—and especially with being a child of God?
The Nature of Curiosity
Curiosity is a fundamental part of being human. It drives us to explore, learn, and grow. Just like my son, who has an unquenchable thirst for knowledge, we often find ourselves asking God, “Why?” Why do bad things happen to good people? Why must we endure suffering? Why does it seem like our prayers go unanswered? These questions arise from a place of longing for understanding, and they are valid.
Shifting Our Perspective: From Why to What
While asking “why” is natural, it can also lead to frustration and disappointment. When we demand answers, we might miss the deeper lessons God wants to teach us. Instead of fixating on “why,” we can shift our focus to “what.” What is God trying to reveal to me in this situation? What can I learn from this trial?
This shift in perspective can be incredibly liberating. It invites us to seek God’s wisdom rather than simply seeking answers. When we ask “what,” we open ourselves up to discovering the richness of God’s love and purpose in our lives.
God’s Promises in Our Questions
When we approach God with our questions, we can rest assured that He hears us. The Bible is filled with promises that remind us of His unwavering presence. For example, in Isaiah 41:10, God reassures us: “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
These verses remind us that while we may not understand the “why” behind our circumstances, we can trust that God is with us every step of the way.
Finding Comfort in Scripture
When faced with life’s uncertainties, Scripture can be a source of comfort and guidance. Here are a few verses to meditate on during challenging times:
- Psalm 34:18: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
- Philippians 4:6-7: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
- Romans 8:28: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
These passages remind us that our questions do not go unanswered; rather, they lead us to the heart of God.
Engaging in Dialogue with God
Just as we encourage our children to ask questions, we can engage in a dialogue with God. When we feel overwhelmed by our circumstances, we can ask Him, “What do you want me to learn from this?” or “What do you want me to know about your character through this experience?” This approach fosters a deeper relationship with God and allows us to grow in our faith.
Trusting God’s Plan
Ultimately, life is filled with uncertainties, but we can trust that God has a plan for each of us. Just as a parent guides their child, God guides us with love and wisdom. In Jeremiah 29:11, He promises, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Embracing the Journey
As we navigate through life’s challenges, let’s remember that it’s okay to have questions. It’s part of our journey as believers. Instead of getting stuck in the “why,” let’s embrace the “what” and seek to understand God’s heart in every situation.
In Summary
Life’s questions can lead us to a deeper understanding of God and His love for us. When we shift our focus from “why” to “what,” we open ourselves to the lessons and blessings that come from trusting in His plan. So the next time you find yourself wrestling with a question, remember to ask God what He wants you to know. You might be surprised by the peace and understanding that follows.
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