In a recent episode of his popular podcast "Ask Pastor John," theologian and pastor John Piper addressed the heartfelt concerns of a young woman grappling with guilt after having an abortion. This poignant discussion highlights the profound themes of grace, forgiveness, and the unconditional love of God, offering hope to many who may feel burdened by their past.
The listener, who chose to remain anonymous, expressed her feelings of unworthiness and questioned whether God could forgive what she termed her "very worst sin." In her heartfelt letter, she shared, "I had an abortion. That is the one and only thing I knew I would never, ever do. But I did it. I cannot begin to detail here the grief and damage it has caused me, and I know I deserve every bit of it."
Piper, who serves as the chancellor of Bethlehem College and Seminary in Minneapolis, Minnesota, responded with compassion and biblical wisdom. He introduced the concept of "gutsy guilt," a term he uses to describe a healthy acknowledgment of wrongdoing coupled with a steadfast hope in God’s grace. He emphasized that while it is important to recognize the seriousness of sin, it is equally crucial to embrace the promise of forgiveness found in the Gospel.
Drawing from the Old Testament prophet Micah, Piper quoted a powerful passage that underscores the possibility of redemption: "Rejoice not over me, O my enemy; when I fall, I shall rise; when I sit in darkness, the Lord will be a light to me" (Micah 7:8). This message resonates deeply, reminding believers that even in moments of despair, God’s light can guide them toward healing and restoration.
Piper reassured the young woman that the Church is a community meant for those who recognize their need for grace. He stated, "If the only people who belong at church are those who deserve to be with God’s people in his presence, nobody would belong to church." This sentiment echoes the truth found in 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, which reminds us that the church is made up of individuals who have been transformed by God’s mercy.
Addressing her feelings of self-disgust, Piper acknowledged that such emotions are natural and even healthy. He encouraged her to move beyond self-condemnation and into a place of hope and reliance on God’s grace. "To look back on abortion and not be disgusted would be a sign of sickness. Gutsy gospel disgust is not paralyzed. It gives up on self and walks into the power of grace," he said, emphasizing the importance of recognizing one’s need for God.
Piper concluded by affirming that God’s invitation to forgiveness is open to all who seek Him. He quoted Revelation 22:17, which states, "Let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who wishes take the free gift of the water of life." This promise serves as a reminder that no one is beyond the reach of God’s love and grace.
Recent studies reveal that many churchgoers struggle with the topic of abortion. A 2023 survey from the Family Research Council’s Center for Biblical Worldview found that one in six regular church attendees in the U.S. has had or encouraged an abortion. Furthermore, a 2015 Lifeway Research study indicated that seven in ten women who have undergone an abortion identify as Christians. These statistics highlight the ongoing need for open dialogue within the church regarding abortion and the value of human life.
As Piper noted, "If America’s most devout Christians are confused about abortion, there is little hope for the pro-life movement." He calls for pastors to take the lead in educating their congregations on these critical issues, ensuring that the message of grace and forgiveness is clearly communicated.
In a world where many feel isolated by their past choices, Piper’s message resonates with hope and encouragement. The Church should be a place where individuals can find healing and forgiveness, reminding everyone that God’s grace is sufficient for all. For those wrestling with guilt or shame, the invitation to seek God remains open, offering a path to renewal and peace.